Social Phobia Self Help
Social Anxiety (And Other
Things I Didn't Know About Myself) by:
John R. Cook, Ph.D.
Mid life for me, as most people, is a time of personal
review, trying to fathom the twists and turns in life that have
brought me to where I am today. Among the questions I have
asked myself is: What led me to specialize in treating social
anxiety? Upon private reflection, the most compelling reason is
that I, like many of my clients, have suffered from that
disorder. We are in good company. Just over 10% of North
Americans can expect to suffer from social anxiety at some time
in our lives.
Social phobia (social anxiety disorder) is characterized by
excessive or unreasonable fear of being judged by others in
social or performance situations such as public speaking,
eating, or working. The anxious anticipation, avoidance, and
distress we suffer in these feared situation(s) interferes
significantly with our everyday activities, and can lead to a
life of underachievement and loneliness.
The good news for people suffering from social anxiety is
that the condition is entirely treatable using Cognitive
Behavioral therapy. To understand how this treatment works, it
is important to understand two things about social phobia. The
first is that it is a learned response. This means, like any
bad habit, these learned responses can be replaced with other,
more adaptive behaviours – ones that leave us feeling calm and
confident rather than fearful and avoidant.
The second thing to be aware of, although social phobia can
seem like an overwhelmingly huge problem, it can be broken into
three parts. The three parts are physical reactions in our
body, distortions in our thinking, and changes in our behavior
associated with high anxiety. Once broken into parts, each of
these three parts may be targeted with a set of treatment
techniques that can be readily taught to practically
anyone.
Physical reactions such as changes in breathing, muscle
tension, flushing, and sweating can be relieved through the use
of relaxation techniques. Distortions in our thinking, that
cause us to perceive social situations as more dangerous or
threatening than they really are, can be managed through a
procedure called cognitive restructuring. Last, and most
important, behavior changes can be dealt with through exposure.
Exposure works by teaching our nervous system not to
overreact.
In my experience, the most effective way to provide the
combined treatments of relaxation, cognitive restructuring and
exposure is in a weekly group of 6 to 8 people, over a 12 week
period. Over the past 8 years, my cognitive behavioral groups
have been 80 to 90 percent successful with socially anxious
people as young as 13 and as old as 85. Of course, most people
with social anxiety have to be encouraged to join a therapy
group. I simply tell them, “Invest your anxiety in a calmer
future!”. Check out our Web page at http://www.PsycServ.com for further
information.
Do you suffer from an Anxiety Disorder?
It’s normal to get anxious once in a while. It’s a problem
if you answer “yes” to all of the following.
1. I often feel more tense or upset than can be explained by
the level of threat or danger at the time.
2. I sometimes take extreme measures to reduce my anxiety
such as drugs/alcohol, being angry or withdrawing.
3. I experience significant distress and/or loss of ability
to function in important areas of my life as a consequence of
my anxiety.
If your anxiety is about social or performance situations
where you fear embarrassment or humiliation, you could have
social phobia.
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About The Author
John R. Cook, Ph.D.
Dr. Cook is a clinical psychologist
registered in the Province of British Columbia
(Registration #1025), and the founder of Aegis
Psychological Services Inc.. Find your path to
peace and calm through Dr. Cook's home study
programs, electronic motivational aids and
light therapy products, and self-help links at
http://www.FeelBetterSolutions.com.
info@feelbettersolutions.com
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