Finally Free Yourself From
Worry And Fear by: Edward W. Smith
Would you like to move your life ahead in spite of worry and
fear? Everyone has fears and worries, what sets us apart is our
ability to deal with them and move on. This article will show
you how to manageyour worries and fears, so you free yourself
from them. This is the place to obtain quick, action-oriented
advice on steps you can take right now to reduce your fears and
worries.
The first step in managing your fears and worries is to
recognize that you have them, and then to make them real.
Write out a list of each of the fears and worries you have.
Many of the items on your list will not stand the light of day.
You will immediately realize that some of them are silly or
just aren’t things you should be worried about. Take each of
these items off the list.
Next, take each item and make a list of all the things you
can do about it. This shows you that in most cases you will be
worried about something that you can't control at all and that
your worry serves no purpose. Vow not to worry about things you
can’t control and take them off your list. In the case where
you can do something to reduce the worry, your sense of control
is enhanced, making you feel better.
Now, ask yourself what is the worst thing that could happen
with each worry. In most cases you will find you can live with
even the worst outcome and this will also make you feel
better.
Once you are down to a hard-core list of fears and worries
that you can control, set up a plan to control them. What
options do you have? Who can you ask for help? Exactly what has
to be done, when? Realize you have a lot of control here and
give yourself credit for taking action as you do so in order to
lift your spirits.
Also, it helps to realize that you can feel the fear and
still take action. Fear serves a purpose in that it is a great
“alert” mechanism that helps us stay out of trouble. But once
we “get the message” fear has done its job and starts to get in
the way. Fear and worry can be a positive if we use it as a
call to action and fix a problem. If you acknowledge the fear,
and then proceed with what you need to do, you will find you
are able to function in spite of the fear.
Here are some other tips that will help you feel better.
Make an effort to concentrate on breathing. We tend to limit
our breathing when we are fearful. You will feel better, the
more you breathe. Also, meditation will help reduce stress and
take your mind off your worries. Visualization and affirmations
that help you focus on becoming positive in light of the
situation can help you move forward while acknowledging the
fear. Do not forget physical exercise as a way of reducing the
stress that goes with fear and worry.
Once you begin to have things under control, change your
focus from the negative fears and worries, to the positive
things in your life. When you catch yourself worrying, bring
new positive thoughts into your mind. Change your thinking from
the “cup is half empty” to the “cup is half full”. Suddenly
things that were worries are now positives.
Another way to help reduce the amount of fear and worry in
your life in the future is to begin to do more planning on the
things you will be doing. Look for areas that could become
problems and begin to cover all the contingences. Forward
planning will build your self-confidence and ward off those
nagging fears that something is not right.
So now you have the tools necessary to reduce the fear and
worry in your life and replace them with a justifiably positive
attitude backed up with action and solutions. Start using these
tools right now and begin to live a happier life.
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About The Author
Edward W. Smith is the author of Sixty
Seconds To Success, he produces and hosts the
Bright Moment cable TV and internet radio show,
is president of the Bright Moment Seminars, is
a motivational speaker, and publishes the free,
daily, email of the One Minute Motivator (quick
peak performance tip). His website is
www.brightmoment.com
and his email is
edsmith@brightmoment.com.
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