The Law of Attraction -
More Than Goal Setting and Affirmations
Alone by: Chonticha
Marijne
Did you know that every thought that we think creates a
vibration? Negative thoughts create negative feelings that lead
to low frequency vibrations, whereas positive thoughts create
positive feelings that produce high frequency vibrations.
According to the universal Law of Attraction, "vibes" attract
like "vibes". Have you ever noticed how, when you're feeling
down and depressed, you attract situations that are in line
with your state of mind? So logically, the key to attracting
only the things that you desire into your life, is to vibrate
positive energy. Okay, that sounds simple enough...but how do
you DO that?
"If you want your life to be more rewarding, you have to
change the way you think." - Oprah
We spend far too much time worrying -- about the future,
about paying the bills, about upcoming exams, about our health,
about getting that promotion. What we're actually doing when we
worry about any situation, is concentrating all our energy on
something that we don't want. Hate, worry, fear, jealousy,
anger, sadness are all emotions that make us vibrate
negatively. By focusing on unwanted situations we are actually
attracting the exact situations that we want to avoid! We would
be doing ourselves a favor by focusing only what we DO want,
instead of wasting time and energy on the things that we DON'T
want.
Opposites Do Not Attract
Obviously, no one can feel good all day long, every day. The
key is to do the things that make you feel good as often as you
can. Play uplifting music while you drive to work, avoid the
television programs that produce negative feelings, don't read
the newspaper if the content affects you negatively, interact
only with positive-minded people... just let go and have fun!
Learn to monitor your thoughts...if you notice yourself
thinking a negative thought, immediately negate its effect by
focusing on something that makes you feel good. Remember, there
is nothing more important than feeling good! Keep a photo of
your kids or pet or favorite actor nearby to help you make that
switch. Be grateful for the things that are going well in your
life. Do whatever it takes to generate that upbeat feeling,
because opposites do not attract...but like certainly will
attract like. The Law of Attraction is on the mark each time
and it does not make mistakes!
"Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe it can
achieve." - Napoleon Hill
In order to get what you desire in life, you have to give
those desires regular attention. Fantasize, dream, imagine,
focus... for what you create in your mind, you create in
reality. If it's a specific car that you want, order a brochure
of it and look through it every day. Think about what color you
want and which accessories and options your model has. If it's
a fantasy vacation in the Maldives or the Caribbean, compile
your own colorful screensaver, fantasize about those white
beaches and crystal clear waters abundant with tropical fish.
Paste pictures of your dream home or that sleek yacht that you
desire on a board and look at it often. Be excited about it!
Focus wholeheartedly and with certainty on what you want, and
do so in this moment. Believe that you have what you desire
now, today, in this present moment. Focus on how good that
makes you feel, and try to generate that feeling as often as
you can.
Don't confuse the Law of Attraction by being inconsistent in
your desires. Don't keep changing your mind, otherwise there's
no way for what you ask for to find its way to you. Be
consistent, be determined...but leave the "how" out of it. If
you decide the method and schedule by which your desires will
come to you, you're limiting your possibilities to only what
you can think of. After all, what if there's something better
out there than what you can imagine? Just trust that it is
happening now and allow it to come to you. Follow where your
intuition leads you. Don't worry about it, don't look for
proof, don't start doubting.
Affirmations are a form of advertising
If you do find that doubts and negative self-talk are
getting in your way, you can apply positive affirmations. When
used consistently, affirmations will do away with your limiting
beliefs and replace them with thoughts that will help you
achieve what you desire. Does advertising work? Sure it does -
there's a multibillion dollar industry that proves it and
affirmations are a form of advertising with only you as the
target audience. Affirmations must be stated in the "I" form,
in the present tense and always positively. They should also
invoke a positive emotion. For instance: "I deserve large sums
of money that allow me to have more fun with my family", "I
choose to effortlessly earn $100,000 per year", "I enjoy
working out regularly and maintaining a trim and slim body that
turns heads", "I choose to attract only healthy and positive
people into my life who help me achieve my goals"; "I choose to
create a positive, healthy and joyful lifestyle for myself".
You can write them down everyday, or use them as a screensaver,
or buy special affirmation or goal setting software that you
can use on your computer.
If you're skeptical about how the Law of Attraction can
affect you, just try being happy and positive for a month. It
will amaze you how easy it is to get things going your way in
that short period of time. A lot can be achieved in relatively
little time -- why waste any of it by being negative? Get out
there and manifest what you want!
Copyright 2006 Chonticha Marijne
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About The Author
Chonticha Marijne enjoys working from her
home in the historical city of Gouda, the
Netherlands. Her blog http://goal--setting.blogspot.com/
offers content on goal setting, affirmations
and the Law of Attraction as well as a free
"7 Part Affirmation Course". This article is
copyright © 2006 by Chonticha Marijne and
may be reprinted in its entirety as long as
both byline and copyright statement are
included.
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