5 Signs That You Have Found
the “Right One”!
by: Amy Schoen
Nancy is 38 and has been dating Barry for a year now and is
wondering if he is the one for her. She would like to be
married with a family and is starting to think about if she
should break up with Barry. My advice is that if she isn’t
sure, then it is not right. This is why. Of the couples I have
interviewed, they expressed having these signs about their
mates they married:
1. There is a feeling of “home”.
There is a sense of comfort, and a familiarity. The word
recognition comes up as knowing that this person is the one.
It’s like you have known the person your whole life. It’s so
easy to talk to one another.
2. There is a Flow.
The relationship has ease. The couples finish each other’s
sentences. Time just flies when you are with the right person.
Yes, relationships take work, but this is joyous work. The
concept of flow is true for both in and out of the bedroom!
3. You are able to laugh together and have fun.
You enjoy being with each other and get each other’s jokes.
You may not have exactly the same humor, but you at least crack
a smile. My husband and I both blew straw wrappings at each
other like kids! It’s okay to be silly with this person. The
couple has fun doing activities together and has some similar
interests.
4. You are each other’s best friend.
There is a sense of trust and loyalty. You are know your
partner will be there for you through thick and thin and can be
counted on. You want to share everything with this person- the
good and the bad stuff. You are always excited to see that
person walk in the door.
5. You both act in a “we” way rather than a “me” way.
The couple makes decisions that the benefit the relationship
instead of only the individual. You share life goals and work
together towards them together. You care about how your actions
affect the other.
When all these signs are in place, then it is natural to
want to take the next step towards marriage. The only things
that would stop the progress in a relationship would be one or
both of their internal fears and external circumstances.
When Nancy realized that several of these signs were missing
in her current relationship, she became clear that she needed
to move on and find someone better suited to her rather than
hoping that things would change in her present situation. This
wasn’t the easy path, but she was determined not to settle for
anything less.
Copyright 2006 Heartmind Connection, LLC
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About The Author
Amy Schoen, CPCC, is a certified
professional life coach who specializes in
helping singles to discover what they need and
want in relationships and how to find their
desired romantic partner. For down to earth
tips and helpful hints on dating and
relationships, you can subscribe to her popular
monthly ezine or her tele-gatherings at:
http://www.heartmindconnection.com.
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