What Happens When You Run Out of Goals?
By Earl
Nightingale Here are some interesting questions
you might want to try answering. One: If you could completely
change places with any other person in the world, would you do
it? And who would that person be? Two: If you could work at any
job you could choose, would that work be different from the
work you're doing now? Three: If you could live in any part of
the country you want to live in, would you move from where you
are now living? Four: If you could go back to age 12 and live
your life from that point over again, would you do it?
Studies indicate that the great majority of people, even
though they have a certain amount of dissatisfaction with their
present lives and don't seem to be as happy as they might be,
will answer "no" to all four questions. A person often feels
when he's accomplished everything he's worked and struggled for
so long to achieve, he finds himself depressed more and more of
the time. He has a fine job and an excellent income, a
beautiful home, a wonderful spouse and children. In fact,
everything is finally just as he'd planned it for so many
years. And for no reason that he can put his finger on, all the
fun and enthusiasm has strongly disappeared. He's listless and
unhappy, and he can't think of a single reason why.
This has become a common modern malady, especially in
retirement, and it's what so often happens when a person runs
out of goals. This is when the game of life begins to go to
pot, and the person needs to remind himself of the basic rules
for successful, enthusiastic living. And the first rule is that
a human being must have something worthwhile toward which he's
working. Without that, everything else, even the most
remarkable achievements of the past and all the trappings of
worldly success tend to turn sour. Achieving our life goals can
be compared to opening our presents on Christmas morning and
watching those we love open theirs. We look forward to the day,
plan, and work toward it. Suddenly it is there and all of the
presents have been opened, and then what?
Well, we must then turn our thoughts and attention to other
things. The successful novelist begins planning his next book
before he completes the one he's working on. The scientist
always has something new and challenging to turn to when he
completes a project. The teacher has a new class coming up. The
young family has children to raise and get through school, the
new home to buy, the promotion to work for.
But for millions who reach their 40s and 50s and find
they've done all they set out to do and that there are no new
challenges to give them stimulus and direction, there often
comes the most trying time of their lives – the search for
meaning, for new meaning, and it must be found if the old
interest and vitality are to be restored to their lives, if
they're to achieve renewal as persons.
If you understand this, even the search for new meaning can
bring new interest into your life. You've got to say to
yourself, "All right, I've done what I've set out to do. Now I
must find something new and interesting to do."
Earl Nightingale co-founded
Nightingale-Conant. an
audio publishing company and world
leader in personal development with
over 2 million loyal customers. In
addition to Earl’s audio programs,
Lead the Field and The Strangest
Secret, Nightingale Conant publishes
authors such as Zig Ziglar, Wayne
Dyer, Brian Tracy, Napoleon Hill,
Deepak Chopra, and many, many
more.
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